Safety Tips

• Never Send Money or Share Financial Information

  Do not send money or share financial details under any circumstances, especially in response to requests made under the pretense of emergencies. Wire transfers, gift cards, or cryptocurrency transactions are difficult to trace and typically irreversible. SCAPADE does not tolerate financial solicitation on its platform. Any such requests should be reported immediately via our in-app reporting tools.

• Protect Your Personal Information

  Avoid disclosing sensitive personal information, such as your national ID, social security number, home or work address, or your routine movements (e.g., “I go to the same gym every Monday”). If you have children, avoid sharing identifying details such as their names, schools, or exact ages.

• Stay on the Platform

  Users intending to deceive or defraud may attempt to move the conversation off-platform early. For your protection, we recommend keeping communications within the SCAPADE platform, where moderation and reporting tools are available.

• Stay alert all the time

  Be particularly cautious with individuals claiming to be from your country but stuck abroad, especially if they request financial assistance.

• Report All Suspicious and Offensive Behavior

  You are encouraged to block and report here any user who violates our Terms of Use or Code of Conduct. Reportable behavior includes, but is not limited to:
  - Requests for money, donations, or financial data
  - Underage users
  - Harassment, threats, and offensive messages
  - Inappropriate or harmful behavior during or after in-person meeting 
  - Impersonation or fraudulent accounts
  - Unsolicited promotions, commercial links, or spam.
  SCAPADE investigates all reports and reserves the right to suspend or terminate accounts engaged in misconduct​

• Protect Your Account

  SCAPADE will never ask for your login credentials by email or message. Report any suspicious communications that claim otherwise.

• Don’t Be In A Rush

  Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Scapade. Don’t be afraid to ask questions to screen for any red flags or personal dealbreakers. A phone or video call can be a useful screening tool before meeting.

• Meet in Public and Stay in Public

  Meet for the first few times in a populated, public place — never at your home, your meetup’s home, or any other private location. If your meetup pressures you to go to a private location, end the meet.

• Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans

  Tell a friend or family member of your plans, including when and where you’re going. Have your cell phone charged and with you at all times.

• Be in Control of Your Transportation

  We want you to be in control of how you get to and from your meet so that you can leave whenever you want. If you’re driving yourself, it’s a good idea to have a backup plan such as a ride-share app or a friend to pick you up.

• Know Your Limits

  Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically — they can impair your judgment and your alertness. If your meetup tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you’re comfortable with, hold your ground and end the meetup.

• Don’t Leave Drinks or Personal Items Unattended

  Know where your drink comes from and know where it is at all times — only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odorless, colorless, and tasteless. Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything containing personal information on you at all times.

• If You Feel Uncomfortable, Leave

  It’s okay to end the meetup early if you’re feeling uncomfortable. In fact, it’s encouraged. And if your instincts are telling you something is off or you feel unsafe, ask the bartender or server for help.

• LGBTQ+ Travel

  Be careful while traveling

  We recognize and believe in the importance of being inclusive of all gender identities and sexual orientations, but the reality is this: nowhere in the world is without potential risk, and some countries have specific laws that target LGBTQ+ people.

  Check out the laws around you when you travel to a new place and research what types of legal protection, if any, are available to you based on sexual orientation. In the event that you’re in unsafe territory, we suggest not using the Scapade mobile app.

  It’s important to exercise extra caution if you choose to connect with new people in these countries - as some law enforcement have been known to use dating apps as tools for potential entrapment. Some countries have also recently introduced laws that criminalize communications between individuals on same-sex dating applications or websites and even aggravate penalties if that communication leads to sexual encounters.

  Visit ILGA World to see the latest sexual orientation laws by country, and consider donating to support their research.

  Source: ILGA World, Updated March 2019

Remember — even if you follow these tips, no method of risk reduction is perfect. If you have a negative experience, please know that it is not your fault and help is available. Report any incidents Scapade, and consider reaching out to one of the resources below. If you feel you are in immediate danger or need emergency assistance, call 911 (U.S. or Canada) or your local law enforcement agency.