Safety Tips

Last revised on April 11, 2020

Meeting new people is exciting, but you should always be cautious when interacting with someone you don’t know. Use your best judgment and put your safety first, whether you are exchanging initial messages or meeting in person. While you can’t control the actions of others, there are things you can do to help you stay safe during your Scapade experience.

Online Safety

  • Never Send Money or Share Financial Information

    Never send money, especially over wire transfer, even if the person claims to be in an emergency. Wiring money is like sending cash — it’s nearly impossible to reverse the transaction or trace where the money went. Never share information that could be used to access your financial accounts. If another user asks you for money, report it to us immediately.

  • Protect Your Personal Information

    Never share personal information, such as your social security number, home or work address, or details about your daily routine (e.g., that you go to a certain gym every Monday) with people you don’t know. If you are a parent, limit the information that you share about your children on your profile and in early communications. Avoid sharing details such as your children’s names, where they go to school, or their ages or genders.

  • Stay on the Platform

    Keep conversations on the Scapade platform while you’re getting to know someone. Users with bad intentions often try to move the conversation to text, messaging apps, email, or phone right away.

  • Be Wary of Long Distance and Overseas Relationships

    Watch out for scammers who claim to be from your country but stuck somewhere else, especially if they ask for financial help to return home. Be wary of anyone who will not meet in person or talk on a phone/video call—they may not be who they say they are. If someone is avoiding your questions or pushing for a serious relationship without meeting or getting to know you first — that’s a red flag.

  • Report All Suspicious and Offensive Behavior

    You know when someone’s crossed the line and when they do, we want to know about it. Block and report anyone that violates our terms. Here are some examples of violations:

    You can report any concerns about suspicious behavior from any profile page or messaging window here. For more information, check out our Code of Conduct.

    • Requests for money or donations

    • Underage users

    • Harassment, threats, and offensive messages

    • Inappropriate or harmful behavior during or after meeting in person

    • Fraudulent profiles

    • Spam or solicitation including links to commercial websites or attempts to sell products or services

  • Protect Your Account

    Be sure to pick a strong password, and always be careful when logging into your account from a public or shared computer. Scapade will never send you an email asking for your username and password information — if you receive an email asking for account information, report it immediately.

Meeting in Person

  • Don’t Be In A Rush

    Take your time and get to know the other person before agreeing to meet or chat off Scapade. Don’t be afraid to ask questions to screen for any red flags or personal dealbreakers. A phone or video call can be a useful screening tool before meeting.

  • Meet in Public and Stay in Public

    Meet for the first few times in a populated, public place — never at your home, your meetup’s home, or any other private location. If your meetup pressures you to go to a private location, end the meet.

  • Tell Friends and Family About Your Plans

    Tell a friend or family member of your plans, including when and where you’re going. Have your cell phone charged and with you at all times.

  • Be in Control of Your Transportation

    We want you to be in control of how you get to and from your meet so that you can leave whenever you want. If you’re driving yourself, it’s a good idea to have a backup plan such as a ride-share app or a friend to pick you up.

  • Know Your Limits

    Be aware of the effects of drugs or alcohol on you specifically — they can impair your judgment and your alertness. If your meetup tries to pressure you to use drugs or drink more than you’re comfortable with, hold your ground and end the meetup.

  • Don’t Leave Drinks or Personal Items Unattended

    Know where your drink comes from and know where it is at all times — only accept drinks poured or served directly from the bartender or server. Many substances that are slipped into drinks to facilitate sexual assault are odorless, colorless, and tasteless. Also, keep your phone, purse, wallet, and anything containing personal information on you at all times.

  • If You Feel Uncomfortable, Leave

    It’s okay to end the meetup early if you’re feeling uncomfortable. In fact, it’s encouraged. And if your instincts are telling you something is off or you feel unsafe, ask the bartender or server for help.

  • LGBTQ+ Travel

    Be careful while traveling

    We recognize and believe in the importance of being inclusive of all gender identities and sexual orientations, but the reality is this: nowhere in the world is without potential risk, and some countries have specific laws that target LGBTQ+ people.

    Check out the laws around you when you travel to a new place and research what types of legal protection, if any, are available to you based on sexual orientation. In the event that you’re in unsafe territory, we suggest not using the Scapade mobile app.

    It’s important to exercise extra caution if you choose to connect with new people in these countries - as some law enforcement have been known to use dating apps as tools for potential entrapment. Some countries have also recently introduced laws that criminalize communications between individuals on same-sex dating applications or websites and even aggravate penalties if that communication leads to sexual encounters.

    Visit ILGA World to see the latest sexual orientation laws by country, and consider donating to support their research.

    Source: ILGA World, Updated March 2019

Resources for Help, Support, or Advice

Remember — even if you follow these tips, no method of risk reduction is perfect. If you have a negative experience, please know that it is not your fault and help is available. Report any incidents Scapade, and consider reaching out to one of the resources below. If you feel you are in immediate danger or need emergency assistance, call 911 (U.S. or Canada) or your local law enforcement agency.

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